Accept the reality even if it incinerates; it’s all up to you. Chose the way that leads you to the reality of life!
Live in a way that you should be mentally satisfied than a mature person. Just let things go and be aware. You should know your values, your deadlines, and your boundaries. You’re responsible for everything you do and know how to schedule backward. For example, if someone invites you and you’re supposed to do something at a particular time, it’s not just about you; the people you’re meeting also have a meaningful life in their capacity. Therefore, if you are running late, you have to tell them: I’m sorry, I’m running late even if it’s only 10 minutes. You should always make sense that the other person also has a sense of mutual respect because I think it’s very disrespectful if you don’t honor your commitment.
Don’t Get yourself Affected by Others’ Way of Perception
I’m not too fond of if someone appreciates my physical appearance rather than my skills. I really don’t like it initially. Moreover, the judging phenomena aren’t just limited to what you present on the table. People will judge you for other things that you don’t want to. More women than men are involved in objection because they have a complex over others. You should know your subsistence and know who you are and what you’re doing so you’re not affected by what others say. Everyone has their own opinion. But, remember, when you make something classic, it takes a little while for people to digest some change.
It’s a human thing and is common everywhere. You’ll only be criticized by the people who are doing less than you; criticizing is their sole business. So, I don’t think that you can satisfy everyone. I have to tell myself that I’m who I’m, so if someone criticizes me, I shouldn’t take it personally. You should be strong enough not to be affected by what others say. People do their homework little, so they mostly criticize through social media. For example, they watch a picture on Instagram but don’t know the long story and hard work behind that image, and they end up writing or speaking without thinking that it might affect others’ feelings or hurt them. In case you’re a public figure, you’re not a human anymore; people start commenting and disrespecting you.
Be Loyal to your Roots
Once a girl is going to Spain (for international representation) and she bought a designer dress which is sleeveless. She returned to the designer and asked him to add sleeves to it so she could be more comfortable. She also put a flag of her country on her dress to represent it. So, it takes a special kind of heart to be that kind of loyal to your roots. Most people when they are going abroad, wear fewer clothes in the sense that this is the culture there and want to follow the international race everybody is in. I honestly think that if we don’t own our cultures and traditions, we lost our identity. So do we want to be a personality without an identity or do we want to own our roots?
Mind your Own Business
I go into my own world. Suppose you’re walking on a street, busy with something and going to work. Meanwhile, you heard some noise on the street. You leave your work, stop and address that noise. So, my point here is to remember that this noise will never die. You’ll waste your energy. It’s better just to filter it out, move on and mind your own business.
So, calm down, take it easy. Dial back-room out what’s your frame. Things are not as nasty as we think they are. If you try and pick up on all the good things, then life will be much more beautiful, and everything else around you will also seem more incredible. So, it’s all about your perception.
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